It seems that it takes a lot of work to meet someone special. We go through life with a million expectations of what we want in a partner. We get on sites for online dating and go through countless processing and debating to meet someone – that one and only. It doesn’t have to be so difficult.
1. BE HAPPY
Joy is a high vibration in our bodies. When we take life with this high frequency we get to attract the things we want. No one wants to be in an unhealthy relationship. Happiness is a fantastic road that forces others to travel along with you.
2. BE TRUTHFUL
Do you know what you want in a partner? Be honest of the things you want and those you will not tolerate. You cannot attract your soul mate based on misconceptions and lies.
3. DON’T SETTLE FOR RIGHT NOW
You cannot attract your soul mate if you are entertaining someone in the meantime to fill an empty space. You are not required to be alone forever, but the universe cannot provide a life partner while you are holding on to someone that you know is not right for you. Let go of the idea of loneliness.
4. USE VISUALIZATION
We all have an ideal persona of what we want in a mate. Use this to attract your soul mate. Make a vision board. Write down in a journal the qualities you want in your partner.
5. HEAL PAST WOUNDS
You cannot attract a healthy relationship when you are carrying the wounds from an old relationship. You cannot feed love into a partnership when you are still hung up on someone else full of resentments and regrets. Those things will not allow for a wonderful person to partake in your life.
6. MAKE YOUR LIFE A PLAYGROUND
You must play alone in order to share with another. Enjoy the ability to be with yourself. Get creative. Another person is not going to cure you from loneliness. You have to learn to entertain yourself and enjoy the childlike moments that are fragments of your wholeness.
7. FORGIVE YOURSELF
Why is forgiveness important when attracting a soul mate? Because forgiveness sets you free. Forgiveness is never for another. It is an act of letting go of all past emotions and what drama you played in the past. Forgiving yourself makes room for true love.
8. LET GO OF EXPECTATIONS
No two relationships are the same. Your high expectations of what you will find in a relationship are irrational and will stop the flow of true love. Expectations are dangerous. You cannot expect perfection. You can only attract who and what you are. The more loving you are, the more love you attract.
9. LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION
This is a huge part of your life. Your intuition is an internal GPS guiding you towards the highest good. If you meet someone and it doesn’t feel right or easy, that’s not the person for you. Your internal guidance will align with the right person.
10. BE THE LOVE YOU ARE WANTING TO GIVE ANOTHER
Love is a seed of hope and grace. When you love and respect yourself to the highest level, another person will love and respect you for it. You deserve the acknowledgment, acceptance and unconditional love out there. It all starts with you.