How to Find Other Lesbians? A Lesbian’s Guide

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How to find other lesbians? How to date girls? Where to go to meet girls?

Lesbian culture, by nature, is extremely elusive. When you’re coming out of the closet, it can be hard to know where to meet other lesbians or bisexual women. If you’re not sure where to begin and how to find other lesbians, start with this list of the places where you’re most likely to run into other women seeking women and bisexual women.

The Lesbian Bar

In many cities and small towns, the only place to meet other lesbians may be in the lesbian bar. You may find an open mic or karaoke night.

Gay and Lesbian Center

If there’s a gay and lesbian center in your town, it can be an excellent place to meet people. Many gay and lesbian centers have support groups, rap groups, book and movie groups and political action activities. Find one that feels right to you and you’re sure to meet other like-minded lesbians and bisexuals.

Sports Teams

Many cities have recreational sports teams, whether it be softball, volleyball or basketball. It’s no secret that lesbians love sports. Some have whole leagues for gay and lesbian athletes. You don’t have to be an athlete to get in on the action. Sports like softball and rugby often have many lesbians in the stands watching. It can be a great place to people watch and start a conversation with a stranger.


The best place to meet other lesbians with interests similar to your own is to get involved in activities that interest you. Volunteer at the local animal shelter. Join the local gardening club or bird watchers group.

Through Friends

Let friends and coworkers know that you want to meet other lesbians and bisexuals. Have them invite you over for dinner or game night. Let them know you’re just looking to make friends. Once you meet one or two lesbians that you get along with, you may end up meeting their friends and be welcomed into a whole new circle of people.

The Internet

Sure most people think of the Internet as a place to meet lesbians to date, but it can also be a great place to meet women for friendship.

Gay Neighborhoods

Almost every major city has a neighborhood where gays and lesbians tend to live. There’s sure to be a coffeehouse or café where the lesbians will congregate.

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